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  1. Don’t rush it

It’s okay to take time. So, what if your classmates matured faster? So, what if you still haven’t done anything sexual. Take as long as you need, there is a right time and place for everything.

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2. Peer pressure is real

It may not be obvious, or in your face, but you may feel the pressure to be having sex. Again, be strong-willed and only have sex if you are a 100% sure.

3. It will hurt the first few times

I wish I could sugar-coat it for you and tell you it’s all butterflies and rainbows, the whole way through. But I won’t lie to you. Sex is like wine - you acquire a taste and then, you’re hooked! It will hurt the first few times. Try not to get too excited. Also, foreplay is crucial. It’s going to help you big time.

4. Don’t talk about your sex life with people you don’t know too well

They will pretend to be your friends and act like they are very progressive in their thinking and cool about everything but secretly they will judge you and bitch about you behind your back.

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5. A man’s junk will soon start looking attractive

I know that when you first see it, it looks out of place, just hanging there. You’ll wonder where that came from, or what should you do with it. But your thoughts about this will soon change. In fact, at some point, just the thought of it will turn you on.

6. Take care of your personal hygiene

Always take a shower after you have sex. Clean your genitals thoroughly and always pee after sex. Most importantly don’t forget to drink water because otherwise, you will get UTIs.

7. It won’t be like in the movies

To have great sex requires chemistry, practice and a lot of patience. Movies have been lying to you. Initially, it’s going to suck big time.

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8. You will not orgasm every time

And that is quite normal. Don’t be disappointed, or let down by this. Men generally finish faster than women.You’ll get used to it in time.

9. Safe sex is the only sex you should have

Pregnancy scares are not funny and even the slightest chances of being infected with an STD can be quite annoying. So, do the right thing. Practice safe sex.

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10. You will learn to love your body

Initially, it will be awkward being naked in front of someone; you’ll be increasingly conscious. But slowly, you will start appreciating your body much more than you had before because of who you are, and who you are with.

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